((Blue))
Good morning. Today is yesterdays tomorrow. Today, you get up and take one step at a time. Prioritize the most important things, you, your kids, your job.... and take care of each of them the best you can. You can only take care of your things, not your wife, or her things, just yours. Maybe try to make a plan for alternative help with the kids. And when you are ready, try to think about your bounderies and what you will and will not accept.
Baby steps, one problem at a time.
And Welcome, I'm sorry about the circumstances that bring you here, but I'm glad that your found us.
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