Eroica, I'm having trouble with that myself.
When it comes to society in general, there's not much for me to do about my anger at the moment. I suppose that when I'm well enough I can focus my energy on speaking out against groups that wish to legislate "morality" to the nth degree. I tire of certain groups and their quest to treat certain members of society as second class citizens.
When it comes to individuals, however, I try to focus on their good qualities.
Most of the people I talk to do have religious beliefs, but they really don't talk about it...and if they do they aren't pushy.