I didn't throw out any resentments. I threw out the line, aka "lie" between the 2nd and 3rd column.
The people, institutions and principles in the 1st column are irrelevant. They change seats all the time.
I come to find that I place myself in a position to be harmed or threatened and/or started the ball rolling and those people, institutions and principles were usually victims of me, not the other way around.
If I have a justified resentment or somebody really actually did cause me harm, I
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This stuff usually becomes more clear after you're done with the 9th Step... IMHE