Thank you, thank you, seriously! No, I have not set or kept boundaries, I haven't even been clean myself the whole time. what a nightmare. A couple months ago I got so sick of policing her that I decided to just go ahead and use crack and coke myself. I mean, I stayed up all night shooting in with her, and had a grand time, and I did this like 5 times. Horrible. And yes, yes, I have had a problem with pills, too- and she gave them to me, and then I stole them from her. Do I even belong in this section? Perhaps I belong in both. I really do not identify as an addict, because I am able to try things and quit things... and I know I need to make major changes here. major. However, I really want my girl back on the 26th!! I see what you all are saying though. How depressing.