I use an addiction outpatient clinic where I see a therapist once a week. This is in addition to my AA program. I am so thankful I have the opportunity to see her, I can talk about a lot of issue that aren't really appropriate for AA meetings.
Although I see my therapist essentially to talk about my recovery from alcoholism, the fact is that we talk about a lot of other things: family, my marriage, my kids....I am a co-dependent for three alcoholic brothers. It is such a relief to have a place to talk about this.
Maybe you could find a counseling service in some form?