Whereami, I have been worried about just that.
It has not been pleasant with him next door, I guess he wants to be sure we know how he is living and so he can keep up with what we do & who comes over etc.
Since he left he has resumed drinking, the drug use I dunno about & don't really care to know.
If he calls the house it's only early in the day, & only concerns household stuff or the kids. I guess he calls before he gets all drugged and boozed up.
Last night I came home from work and he was mowing the yard. I didn't ask him to do that so I didn't say anything about it.
He's prob thinking I will come around and take him back yadayadayada. Like before. And let it happen all over again. Been there done that.....
I'm doing ok, getting by. It's been a week now. I can do this.
Teggie