Stone we need a little quote from the big book to help Believe where are you??
How about page 67....
Though we did not like their symptoms and the way
these disturbed us, they, like ourselves, were sick too.
We asked God to help us show them the same tolerance,
pity, and patience that we would cheerfully
grant a sick friend. When a person offended we said
to ourselves , "This is a sick man. How can I be he lpful
to him? God save me from being angry. Thy will be
done."