Originally Posted by
jamdls 
The fact that you can only reach this man during working hours Mon-Fri should have stopped any relationship from forming, that would tell me there is another more important (to him) relationship in his life. I agree with the other cut off ALL contact with this person, you can't properly take care of yourself if you are trying to please someone else. I cut off all relationships (aside from family) when I got sober and it's only now after nearly 2 years of sobriety that I feel confident enough to start letting people back in. Take care of YOU.
Judy
Yes, I suppose I could now rationalize this by saying...but I can leave him a VM on his work cell phone at any time, but the truth is that is BS. He doesn't seem to understand that I need to be able to reach him when I need to be able to reach him. I don't know why he is this way, but he's always been and I've known him for three years now. Thanks Judy for pointing out the elephant in the living room.