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Old 06-03-2009, 06:29 PM
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livlaphluv
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Join Date: Sep 2004
Location: Cedar Rapids Iowa
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What's fun now?

Originally Posted by Chamabama View Post
Thanks! It's not a big bar/drinking scene. Fancy restaurant near work that has a nice longe/outdoor patio. We girls get together every week or two and talk about our lives, etc. I think we fancy ourselves as our own little sex in the (west coast) city kinda group. It's not the kinda thing I can just stop doing because I need to be able to connect with my girlfriends. We do many other things that aren't drink related too (saw an off broadway show last Wednesday). Funny, the one friend that doesn't drink only stays for a couple of hours while we drinkers would go for a good 4-5 hours. Now that I'm not drinking, I wonder if I'll also be a 2 hour kinda gal. Maybe we're just not that intestesting sober?
I think this is that hardest part for me. I'm a "fun" drunk and people love to party with me. What happens now that I don't want to drink? Sometimes I feel like I need the liquor to open up that fun side of me. But that's just silly, right?
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