Originally Posted by
UNHAPPY777 
. I'm just wondering is this what addicts dooooooooo for the rest of their lives.
As long as we allow it.... nothing changes if nothing changes. As long as he knows you're still going to put up with this... he doesn't see a reason to change.
I finally separated from my STBxAH of 20years about 8 months ago. Like you,
I put up with a lot, the disappearances, etc. For my sanity and the effect
everything was having on my teenagers, I had to get out... couldn't take
it any longer. (((HUGS and PRAYERS)))