I feel so bad for this innocent child. I hope you see the damage this is doing.. now it's so obvious, think of what you might have been missing.
So you are in control of visitation, it's your call.. and though you can't stay with your husband due to his behaviors, a child was/is ok there? (well we know now that he's not).
Does someone with SOME authority and unbiased sense have any oversight in this case? Child services etc??
Ugh.. sad.. I have to ignore this thread.