Now I know where I should have come here on the board for Mother's Day. Right now the relationship with my mother is completely void. We cannot have a conversation about what's going on in my life without her blaming my dad, my sister, me...........OVER IT!!!!
And if I do have a "normal" relationship with her, it's like I'm telling her "everything you did was ok." It's not.
I have to live today for me. I have had to look at some of my own behavior and it was hard to swallow the "I did what my mother did" pill. But I'm also not going to sit here and blame everyone else. I'm going to be responsible, what she does??? Well, she's going to continue doing what she does not matter what I do or say but I don't have to live with it any more.
