Welcome izero,
So sorry your girlfriend isn't making it yet. I hope she gets into extended rehab soon.
Bringing her the vodka:
Well, I think in the beginning we all try to make a deal with the devil. We all try to find ways to outmaneuver the disease so it does not ruin our relationships, our children, our lives.
So sometimes we bring it gifts.
Once you understand the game, though, you will do better.
Good luck and all the best to you. Glad you are here.