i would not supply or deliver alcohol to my alcoholic brothers. That was an easy one to stop doing. What was harder to change were the other more subtle enabling behaviors...like bailing them out of trouble financially or physically helping them do things they should be able to do for themselves, or engaging in tortured conversations about their drinking...or listening to them quack etc!
Have you tried AlAnon? It helped turn my head around!
peace,
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Last edited by Bernadette; 05-22-2009 at 05:29 PM.