Year after year, I search the Hallmark section looking for something appropriate for a mother's day card. I never find one. All of them go on about "how wonderful it is to have a mother like you"
It isn't "wonderful" at all.
I tolerate her at best. She complains all the time non stop.
While she hasn't drank in 30 years, the behaviors have not changed.
This year I told her I had a card for her but lost it somehow. I really never had a card.