Here's where I get a little lost in my own life...now what do you do? When you slammed the door on a subject (which I admire whole heartedly, Spirit) how do you truly shut down the mental discussion over it.
I get into situations like this with ABF or whomever, and even after the conversation is over and the last shoe has dropped, I still swirl it around in my head.
"Did I do the right thing, could I have said it more firmly, was I being firm or just being a b**ch." On and on.
I suppose it's different for everyone, but I just wondered.
Spirit, what now? The door is closed on the subject. Will you be able to move on or will the hamster keep running in his wheel over it? For me it probably would.