I do not feel that his response as to why he could NOT bring it today, while he was here was even remotely acceptable. Explain to me how it was to much trouble for him to lift a cat carrier filled with my possessions from the bed of his rental truct to the bed of his new truck?? No, there is no excuse, and that is unacceptable. As for me telling him to "keep it" that had NOTHING to do with being a Martyr.....that had to do with me ending it here and now, without justifying or explaining anything to him. He does not deserve ANY explanation......he can simply Keep it........done.........the end........No reason for him to "get with me next week" or come by my place yet again........He keeps the stuff and there is nothing left to talk,email about.....