I've read your posts. I have to say I kind of agree with LTD.
You have to consider the possibility that nothing he is doing is about you, to you, for you. I'm getting the sense you are thriving in this drama despite saying you hate it.
If I can illustrate. He does not bring your stuff back when he collects his. He offers what seems a perfectly reasonable explanation why and a time/date to get your stuff to you. And your response? "Just keep it".
You don't want him to keep it. You want your stuff. So why do you suppose you sent that to him?