bluejay and freedom, thank you both for your kind and healthy advice. I have got to work on distancing myself from the whole family. It's really stressing me out. I have cut some of the family out of my life completely and am working on getting away from it all. However, right now I have to work for the family and I'm trying my best to leave it all behind and not have to be connected to them in any way.
Yes, I'm sure he would probably try to use me just like he uses everyone else that tries to help him. I don't understand addiction so I keep trying to treat him like a normal person and it doesn't work.
Thanks again. You both make a lot of sense.