Originally Posted by
RobinsFly 
So, did you end up staying in the relationship?
I was being quite general in my first post, but, no. I left the previous relationships. NOW I am comitted , going on 2 years, to a relationship with a recovering Alcoholic who is really wonderful with me. We are not perfect but we are very accepting and have a lot of shared respect, dedication to growthy and spiritual compatibility right now.
To your question of how would you know how to listen to your inner growth calling? I would suggest to keep it simple. Do not try to listen with your intellect. Listen with your heart and soul. Listen to your suffering and tension as well as your ideals, hopes and dreams for this life you have. Sometimes we are guided out of situations that no longer serve us by our inner conflict. Other timesw we stay and change within.
I totally trust that you are going to find peace in your life. Stick around. I always enjoy our conversations!