Thread: Letter to ABF
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Old 05-19-2009, 10:17 PM
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Originally Posted by Kerrys View Post
You big, stupid jackass! Why does everyone have to save you from yourself?

made and ate dinner (which YOU ruined)

walked YOUR dog (I hope he pees on you while you're sleeping)

did the dishes (you lazy baztard)

drive to your loser friend's house to get some of his crappy weed

go back to your other loser friend's house and smoke that chaff,

make an ass out of yourself.

stinking like you licked the bar floor under the taps after closing

you must be slipping, buttwipe ... I hope you pick up a can of beer, and there is a cigarette butt in it and you swallow it, you big, stupid ass
I'm all for venting; we all need to let off steam at times. This, however, reads as more than mere venting. You are involved with a man you consider (1) a stupid jacka$$; 2) a lazy ba$tard, 3) an a$$ 4) a buttwipe, and; 5) a big, stupid ass.

So what are you planning to do with your rage at a person with the characteristics you have listed? Leave him? Throw him out? Get into counseling and/or Al-Anon to deal with your own rage? Sure, it's a vent ... but what are you getting out of this relationship? How's it working for you?

P.S. - If "everybody" has to save this loser from himself, does that include you? If it is, I'd suggest you figure out why you are wasting your time trying to do the impossible. We can only save ourselves. It is not possible to save anyone else from the choices they wish to make.
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