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Old 05-10-2009, 07:58 AM
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lostthebattle
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Originally Posted by winnie12 View Post
sharon - my son has no time for me when he's in the real world. as soon as he is locked up or in rehab then he acts life his life revolves around me. begging me for visits an pressuring me to bring him things. well if he doesnt care to be around me while he's free then why should i change all my plans around to suit him just because he has no one else. this is a price they pay for using. yes of course they will provide her with feminine hygene products. my son's love for me right now is dependant upon what he needs from me not because he has a relationship with me. well for me that's just not enough - i cant just be there for the tough times and then ignored during the normal times.
Sharon as much as it hurts everything Winnie says is true.Tough love is just that(Tough).I think if your addict is one of your children and they get into a tangle it's a natural Mom instinct to run to their rescue and don't think your daughter don't know this believe me she does.
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