sharon - my son has no time for me when he's in the real world. as soon as he is locked up or in rehab then he acts life his life revolves around me. begging me for visits an pressuring me to bring him things. well if he doesnt care to be around me while he's free then why should i change all my plans around to suit him just because he has no one else. this is a price they pay for using. yes of course they will provide her with feminine hygene products. my son's love for me right now is dependant upon what he needs from me not because he has a relationship with me. well for me that's just not enough - i cant just be there for the tough times and then ignored during the normal times.