dont spend a dime - she can get a public defender if she doesnt have the money herself. She can call an atty - you dont have to do that. Let her figure out the bf issue on her own - any interference from you will push her closer to him. She's safe now and you should just let her handle this on her own at this point. You raised her, put her through school, your job is done and its time for her to take over her own life. Where she lives - whether she uses - these are decisions she has to make and you have no responsibility at all for it.