Originally Posted by
jessicact 
well Another day and still he has not gone to a NA meeting. Last night he showed up at my house high. I feel so bad turning him away. He says he want to get his life together and change his ways. I am not sure how much more I can take. When he is high on oxys and pot he is in a very good mood. When he is coming down, he is not fun to be with. What can I do to help him change his ways for good?
You
can't help him change his ways. He has to want it.
Actions speak louder than words. Is this the kind of relationship that you want? What you are seeing is what you get.