well Another day and still he has not gone to a NA meeting. Last night he showed up at my house high. I feel so bad turning him away. He says he want to get his life together and change his ways. I am not sure how much more I can take. When he is high on oxys and pot he is in a very good mood. When he is coming down, he is not fun to be with. What can I do to help him change his ways for good?