Try your local Community Services Group (if you have one) or some other gov't agency that deals with addiction. They may have a list of recommended counselors. Or check out the internet for various qualifying agencies. You want a woman who specializes in addiction. and file a complaint against that MORON you saw. What he said is unforgivable and I'm pretty sure the various licensing ageacies would be interested in hearing about him. But please don't let one bad experience scare you away from a counselor. I'd recommend mine but she's in Virginia......