great wisdom folks!
GingerM, I wish I had award-winning words to express what I want to say, but I don't however, I still want to acknowledge you and how much your perspective has touched me. Thank you for being you! I am glad I engaged in this conversation, I stuck my neck out (!) and look what I got, a treasure trove of wisdom from many sources! I appreciate you and everyone else who has contributed to this thread!:ghug
elena