Eroica...i was alot like your sister for about 15 years...believe me it isn't a very fun life after a while....it was ok for about 7-10 years...but now i really regret all the friends and realtionships and love i maybe could have had taht are now lost.
I think maybe your sis is feeding what may be some irrational beliefs you might have.
Of course I've had bad relationships in the past and she's quick to remind me of them. But still I can't help wondering if she's right.... but I also want to prove her wrong
learning from the past is one thing, letting it define us is something else. You need to prove it wrong to yourself...her opinion won't matter that much if you know it isn't true (course none of this can i do
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