I'm so happy for you that everything went well.
Your AEX's behavior and appearance helped to do him in with the judge.
About you not feeling anything....
The opposite of love is not hate - it's indifference.
You don't feel anything ...no jealousy either.
I discovered this was the case when I divorced my ex in 1984.
It was reinforcement for me that I had done the right thing.
And it should feel that way to you, as well.
A divorce party !
Glad your friends arranged that.
