Originally Posted by
anvilhead 
think of it like going for your annual check up at the doctor....do you need your BF there during the annual pelvic exam???
as it is, he's a LONG way from recovery.....take it slow, listen a bit less to the words coming out of his mouth, and watch his ACTIONS.....they will give you a much better sense of his true intentions.......
OMG AH - you nut!
Welcome to SR - take the time to read around SR - lots of valuable information. Educate yourself, read the stickies and try your best to keep your distance in his recovery. Watch his ACTIONS, not his words. Many of us have been dragged for years with words instead of paying attention to their actions.