[QUOTE=Dreamer999;2212572]dreamstones,
Perhaps you could try "telling" them what you think, making you have YOUR feelings acknowledged and then burn the papers...
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Dreamer999,
Thank you for the words of support, very meaningful to me and does help me calm down. I know all of us are here for this kind of support. It never gets easy and trying to make others understand, well, sometimes, it falls on deat ears. I think I am writing to them now in this posting, the "burning of the letter" is the support of all you wonderful people.