Try another group. I you don't like that one, keep looking for one you like. If you still don't like AA, try a secular recovery group. If you don't like that, try a treatment center that may offer something else, like the Minnesota method. Try counseling.
Try meditation.
You can pick out the things you don't like about any of these methods, (and there is no perfect method....) and butt your head against them and not get anywhere.
Or you can find the things in a program (any program) that work for you and get to work.