I hate when people with alot of time come off like its their way or no way. But I have learned too.hat not everyone with long time is trying to come across that way. "i was not there when this happened to you. So I am not assuming anything. 'I am just saying that some like to throw around their so called wisdom like they got it licked and if you dont do it the way they say. Then your doomed. BS!!
Then you got the ones who will tell it like it is with true honesty to really try and help you out.
Whats the difference?
Arrogance and ego most of the time it seems to me.
Some I think need to be like that to keep themselves sober and to feel like somebdy. The rest. Well they relize how dam serious this **** is and dont hold back in telling you how it worked for them.
I hope you find some answers of your own soon.
Just hang in there and just let the ones who like to blow smoke up your ass keep talking. Cause with poeple like that. They just like to hear themselves.