Hi my son is on my lap and I'm cleaning house. I don't know if his father is using or not. Because he was/is a pathelogical liar, I can't trust a word out of his mouth. I don't ask because it doesn't matter what he tells me. Our relationship was completely destroyed by his addiction. I don't let him stay here anymore. He sees his son about once a week, for a couple hours. Always supervised by me. We are civil. But that's all I can manage with him.
I'm working hard and busy as can be at my job and raising an energetic 3 year old on my own. I'm happier and more stable than I have ever been in my whole life. Not perfect but when I get down I realize the feelings will pass and I am in charge of my future.