It's day to day... but I trust that I am healthier than when I was living with the addict.
I too have stopped being super slueth, stopped trying to figure out if he is high or not... if he is, he is... at least I am not around it. I am starting to figure out what I want to do with my life... not how I can get a life inside of the one that was dealt to me. I am beginning to work on getting myself healthier physically... slow battle there!
I have started to set goals that I am actually working towards.... sounds like a , "duh" doesn't it... but can't tell you how many things I have said I want to or am gonna' do and then didnt follow through.
So, about a year or so into my recovery... I am making progress, certainly not at the speed of sound and/or perfection... but I am moving forward. Thanks for asking!