Re: Boundaries
I have a practical question for those of you who have the boundary that the A can't sleep in your bedroom when they're drunk. How do you kick them out?! I mean, practically speaking. I think my AH would just be a sot and pass out. I can't see him going quietly.
JT -- It may be an ultimatum for some people, but for me, it's just what I can live with. I have been physically ill too many times to put myself through it again. I had to set a boundary that was true to me, because he's so bent on bending my boundaries. That's what I really mean (I can't live with an active A), so I'm just being dead honest about it, with myself and with him.