Originally Posted by
kj3880 
It's been almost two weeks since the last stalking incident from him. (Yay!)
Amen to this!
I am three mos into my journey here. I've been reading every day and trying to post when I feel I have something productive to add. I'm working on Step 3 as well, although some days I feel like I start at Step 1 when I open my eyes in the morning.
I am still living with my ABF but our interaction has really been much better. Dont' get me wrong, it's not what I want for a love relationship, but it is more productive than the mother/adult infant dynamic we once had.
Detaching with caring has been my mantra and taking responsibility for myself financially as well as emotionally has been a priority.
I still have a long way to go just to get to point of separating from him, and some days I do wonder if he will make a change in his life before that happens. Only my HP has that answer so I leave it to him.
I am loving being on SR.
Alice