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Old 05-08-2004, 08:01 AM
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Re: Boundaries

Wow. You guys are fantastic. This thread is really going to help me stick to my guns. Have you noticed that writing the boundaries out can be kind of tough? Or is that just me?

The number one boundary I've set so far is this:

1. I will not live with an active alcoholic, meaning that if he drinks, we will make arrangements to live separately. I don't want to be involved in how he stays sober or what he does to get there, but he must be sober for our marriage to continue.

phew. That was hard to write down.
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