Hi TC!! Those plans sound great!!
As someone else said here "whatever he is doing, its not with you" as in... he is abusing someone else... he is another woman's problem now. I have thanked HP so many times for being out of that madness.
You are free and you are wonderful TC, its amazing to start creating the life you enjoy, with worthy people and activities, creating nice atmospheres for yourself and knowing there are many others Out There in SR that are doing the same thing.
We are all closer to the real Love we seek, but sometimes its difficult to realize this!!