Originally Posted by
anvilhead 
as YOU choose to move FORWARD in your life, he retreats into the past.
Holy Wow! That puts it into good perspective -thanks, anvilhead!
I was just reading Dreamer's "dependency and relationships" link (THANKS - it is awesome!), and it really made me think. This isn't a surprising development. She needs. He needs. It's a match made in alcoholic heaven.
I wish 'em the best. Now, on with my life - out of theirs'! I guess I need to block them on facebook - it's too tempting to read about their shenanigans.
I'll leave them to their drama and commence with my own plans (finishing up this last bit of school work, enrolling my son in T-ball, helping with a big graduation celebration for my best friend, brainstorming about a relaxing trip to the ocean with my new beau, buying a new bed - with lots of pillows!). Ahhh....