Originally Posted by
wrkinrose 
Thanks so much to all who replied. I will not bail her out or help her weasel out of the consequences.
Good for you! I'm glad to hear you are attending Alanon-it surely was a lifesaver for me.
I think tough love goes against so many instincts we have as mothers, and I can appreciate how difficult it can be for someone new to all of this!
:ghug :ghug