Rose,
My son has been in jail 3 x's with a current outstanding warrant. On the advise of his lawyer, the first 2 x's, I bailed him out. The 3rd time he was arrested, his father called me and told me not to bail him out and I totally agreed. His father went the very next day and bailed him out. If I had to do it all over again, I would have never bailed him out the first time. He has never had to suffer the consequences of his bad decisions and maybe he would not be in the extremely bad situation that he is currently in, had I not enabled him. When she calls, tell her that she now has consequences to pay for her bad decisions. Bet she doesn't do it again.
Signed,
A loving mother who is learning from her own mistakes.