Originally Posted by
liveweyerd 
I hope he is well. But those intitial moves would take sustained determination and effort.
And if he couldn't do it before, he didn't just magically get it overnight.
You make a very good point, Live. It doesn't happen overnight.
We do ourselves a terrible injustice when we compare our insides with other people's outsides. I spent so much of my life doing that, and was absolutely miserable.
I know for me, as a recovering alcoholic, it took
years and a
lot of hard work to start becoming the kind of person I could actually look in the mirror at and like, let alone love.