Re: Giving up
Carol-
I'm right where you are, except mine doesn't wake the kids... He's just gone..
things have been going downhill quickly here,especially since he broke his ankle in March... He spends all day drinking or sleeping it off. Usually drinking. Today was the first day he slept since he went out Monday night. Has he done anything around here?? no... Of course he can go to the bar, or to the neighbors, or a Cubs game, or WWf with his boozo buddies. That's about it.
I have barely spoken to him in 2 months.
Yesterday and today, my stomach has been killing me. I know I will have to give my kids money and a trip to the mall for my mothers day present. I'm sure he has no money left. Anyway, tonight is softball, then to the bar, so doubtful he will be home tomorrow to take them, and it;s important to them to have something for their mom, so , of course, I will have to do it. Then make plans for Sunday as, as I suspect, if he isnot home tomorrow, he will not be home sunday.
Sorry to sound so bitter, but I am not having a good day. I took Monday off work just because I NEED to.. Unfortunately, he might be here. Maybe I'll tell him he won't have to interrupt his busy social life to come home so I can go to work. Hopefully, he'll stay away all weekend.