TJ hon you need to take care of your self and let him take care of himself, the only person that can get him clean is him. 2 suggestions:
1. Got to
Friends and Family of Substance Abusers - SoberRecovery : Alcoholism Drug Addiction Help and Information this is another forum here for friends & families of substance abusers.
2. Go to the NA equivelant of Alanon or got to Alanon, this is a program/support group of people dealing with alcoholics and addicts in their lifes.