Penny, stagebear didn't accuse you of asking for yourself ... he said:
'I'd be concerned that I would hang on to that "possibility" as a free pass to use again'
And for some reason, you took his statement of concern about himself, as being directed at you.
Might wanna give it some thought as to why you had that reaction ... and yeah, I am talking to you
(i posted this so that da bear could avoid looking like the jerk this one time ...)