Osakis,
I understand (I think everybody does). I used to feel such relief (and GUILT at the relief) when my sister was in jail, where at least she might have a little longer to 'figure it out.' That old thing where 'as long as she's still breathing, there's still hope' that she'll finally want sobriety.
Wishing the best for you, your mom, and your brother. I know you know it's no guarantee; you're just stating what you'd like to have happen. I'm hoping it does too.
GL