thank you all for your support, the last 2 posts are so correnct and was exactly what I told her today, but she made her choice to leave......
I bet she will change her opinion by the time I get home from work.
how else is she going to get free cable, free hot water, free meals, etc...
Jeff
P.s. she has to go in order for her to get better and for me to save whats left of my sanity for my kids sake.