realization.....
no matter how much we love, how much we want to see progress, no matter anything else. they are only going to get better when they are ready.
as much as she says she is ready and is doing it and that I should be proud that she tested Negative. I keep feeling that there is no one telling me how proud of me they are for testing negative... ohh wait I dont get tested because I am clean... yeah I know a bit sarcastic!
well new plan ....
2 weeks to go before she goes into IRT (inpatient Recovery Treatmen)
choice A-
ask her to move out and thats that
once she is completed her program, has a job, her own apartment, and her son back from her sister's out of state (back on her OWN feet)
then we can talk about maybe seeing if there is an US
choice B-
let her stay the 2 weeks here only if
1-no repeat of the crap from last night
2- some type of part time job
3- helps around the house ALOT more
she probably will choose plan B until her son goes out of state then move out
suggestions???????
